Alexa Sue-Anne & Matthew

August 22, 2022 • Tulsa, OK

Alexa Sue-Anne & Matthew

August 22, 2022 • Tulsa, OK

Wedding Party

Parents of The Bride & Groom: Hosts

Mr. Matthew & Sarinda Dudley
Mr. Matthew & Sarinda Dudley - Parents of The Bride
We look forward to celebrating the union of our darling daughter and new son with you soon!
Mr. James & Matty Viloria
Mr. James & Matty Viloria - Parents of The Groom
We are excited to welcome alexa to our family as our daughter & to celebrate the marriage of our handsome anák. Let's celebrate together soon!

Bridesmaids

Miss Valerie Barney
Miss Valerie Barney - Maid of Honor
Valerie with fashion house Vacanne from California and the bride have been insta besties since Alexa was invited to speak at Dubai Modest Fashion Week in 2019. With a shared passion for fashion and faith, the girls formed a deep connection! NAYC in 2019 brought both girls to St. Louis, Missouri where they finally laughed together in person! They met the same night Alexa met the groom—and had she not spent over an hour hunting for Valerie at the Rams stadium she wouldn't have crossed his path at the crosswalk! "Val" as both the bride and groom call her played a vital role in their love story...from Val being a supportive friend sharing Alexa's photos to her story early on (which allowed Alexa to catch Matt's eye ) to inviting them both to her fashion show to hosting Alexa in San Diego when Matt first flew her out—she is a vital part of our story. Matt and Val have been friends long before Alexa came into the picture which makes 8.22.22 all the more special. From the moment Alexa met Val she had found more than a friend but rather a sister. There is no one more fabulous, no one with a bigger heart, and no one else that Alexa could imagine doing the role of Maid of Honor justice than Valerie Barney.
Miss Dangyang Lu
Miss Dangyang Lu - Best Boo of Honor
Alexa's best friend from Sewanee and sister since day one! Alexa and "boo" as she calls her met on August 15th, 2016 when they moved into their dorm room in "cleave"... They have been absolute besties ever since and lived together for all four years of their Sewanee career. From Cleveland to McCrady to Humphrey's hall they are precious memories! Boo spent her Freshman summer on the farm with Alexa in Missouri and Alexa spent her sophomore year summer in China with Boo. So many of life's greatest memories have been Boo and Alexa laughing together and working hard to reach their dreams. Boo is a loyal and trustworthy friend of Alexa's and their friendship is more like sisterhood. Alexa is so thankful God put them together at Sewanee and that they were able to live together for all four years. It is a great honor to have Boo in from China to celebrate this most special day.
Miss Adrian Dudley
Miss Adrian Dudley - Sister of Honor
Alexa loves her older sister Adrian with her whole heart. Alexa grew up spending her days at great nana "gina's" playing, singing, and making special memories with her big sister. Alexa has dreamed of saying "I Do" with her big "A" since she was just a little girl.
Miss. Abbie Oglesby
Miss. Abbie Oglesby - Bridesmaid
Alexa's Best Friend since Pre-K (age 4). Alexa's great-grandmother Virginia was Abbie's dad's first-grade teacher. Abbie and Alexa have been making priceless memories since they first met all the way to now—for the last 20 years. Memories include sleepovers, traveling, and just making whatever activity they were doing more than fun. The girls have shared in their faith and their connection in Christ has been such a source of support throughout life. Abbie and Alexa have been dreaming of this day for so long and it is so special that is actually here!
Mrs. Regan Vaught
Mrs. Regan Vaught - Bridesmaid
Alexa's sister in Christ and forever best friend! Alexa first met Regan at ARCAMPS growing up but they didn't become close until the two traveled to Madagascar, Africa together on AYC. It was under the Madagascar sky where Alexa and Regan poured their hearts out to each other and an unbreakable bond of a sisterhood formed. Alexa can call Regan any day of the week and she's there to laugh, cry or give advice. Alexa was honored to stand beside Regan on her big day and is now proud to be an Auntie to her two beautiful daughters who are also in the bridal party. Regan serves on staff as a ministers wife in Arkansas.
Mrs. Courtney Roa
Mrs. Courtney Roa - Bridesmaid
Alexa has known Courtney for years but it's been in the last year that the two have grown incredibly close. Both creatives, with big hearts these girls are always down for a heart-to-heart, a good prayer session or to get insanely creative! Courtney shot Alexa's High School senior pictures and has been shooting her photos ever since—she's the one responsible for the stunning proposal photos at The Philbrook. Courtney and her husband G played a vital role in making the proposal go off without a hitch and caught the magic on camera! No words will ever be enough to adequately express how much they are loved by both the Bride and the Groom. Court is a best friend for life.
Miss. Zahnib Kalsoom
Miss. Zahnib Kalsoom - Bridesmaid
Zahnib was Alexa's first friend in college! They met while studying pre-medicine at the University of The South in Sewanee, TN. It was on a van headed to a Hindu temple that the girls first connected. Their bond became unbreakable over the next four years as they studied, laughed, and cried together. Alexa & Zahnib wouldn't go one day pass without talking to each other. Their friendship is unique in that they both shared a passion for modest fashion and faith in God. It was on a college campus where they found they were more similar to each other than the rest of their peers in values. This connection quickly became a place of comfort amid the intense academic environment. Alexa loves Zahnib and can't imagine surviving Sewanee without her—it is an honor to have her included in Alexa's big day.
Miss. Karis
Miss. Karis - Bridesmaid
Alexa adores Karis Paris of California! The girls share a deep admiration for Chic style and living for Jesus. Alexa and Karis were insta pals before they met in real life at Mid America conference in North Little Rock, Arkansas. It was at this conference that the girls really became close—they shared in an early morning prayer meeting and have stayed close ever since! Karis has a heart of Gold and it is a big honor to include her in this special day.
Mrs. Payton Shockley
Mrs. Payton Shockley - Bridesmaid
Alexa's Best Friend from High School. They did absolutely everything together: Varsity cheer, show choir, diamond dolls, broken octave, and both devoted members of "SQUAD". Alexa was honored to stand beside Payton on her big day as she married her high school sweetheart! Payton is one of Alexa's constant friends who always uplifted and encouraged alexa throughout the highs and lows of life. Payton is just as beautiful on the inside as she is on the outside!
Mr. Luke Dudley
Mr. Luke Dudley - Brother of The Bride
Mr. Matthew Dudley
Mr. Matthew Dudley - Brother of The Bride

Groomsmen

Mr. Jay Viloria
Mr. Jay Viloria - Best Man, Brother of the Groom
Matthew's best man and big brother.
Mr. Taylor Lake
Mr. Taylor Lake - Best Man
Mr. Julien  Hunt
Mr. Julien Hunt - Groomsmen
Mr. Isaac Kalohelani
Mr. Isaac Kalohelani - Groomsmen
Mr. Pat Edusada
Mr. Pat Edusada - Groomsmen
Mr. Ashton Green
Mr. Ashton Green - Groomsmen
Mr. Julio Audelo
Mr. Julio Audelo - Groomsmen
Mr. Justin Harris
Mr. Justin Harris - Groomsmen
Austin Disher
Austin Disher - Groomsmen
Mr. Ben Rodriguez
Mr. Ben Rodriguez - Groomsmen
Mr. Guilermo Roa
Mr. Guilermo Roa - Groomsmen

Officiants

The Hamby's
The Hamby's - Bride's Pastor & First Lady
Alexa adores her Pastor and First Lady. The Hamby's have been incredible Shepards and constants in her life since she started attending PNWA at the young age of 13 years old. It was under their leadership and love that Alexa found her foundation in Christ. Their presence at the wedding is a complete honor.
The Herring's
The Herring's - Mentors & Leadership
Matt has been a member of Pastor Josh Herring's mentor group for young preachers and Alexa has been a friend + mentee of First Lady Jenee for several years now. The couple loves them so much—they have been a tremendous blessing and strength as they move into the next season of their relationship.
The Larson's
The Larson's - Groom's Pastor & First Lady
Matthew's pastor and first lady from the Anchor church in San Diego.

Children

Eli Viloria
Eli Viloria - Page Boy
Eli is Matthew's nephew and Alexa is thrilled to become his auntie. It is a great blessing to have Eli in the wedding all the way from San Diego.
Ezra Viloria
Ezra Viloria - Ring Bear
Ezra is Matthew's nephew and Eli's little brother— Alexa is thrilled to become his auntie. It is a great blessing to have Ezra in the wedding all the way from San Diego.
Zachary Ancla
Zachary Ancla - Baby Ring Bearer
We are so honored to have the sweetest & most handsome little boy from the Bride's church in the wedding party. Zachary's parents sit by the bride's family every Sunday and they have grown to love Zachary. Sis Yetzz his mom is a Filipina married to Zachary's father a Caucasian man and it has made Alexa, Matt & Sis Sarinda excited for her beautiful mixed grandbabies God-willing to come.
Makenleigh Eryn Vaught
Makenleigh Eryn Vaught - Flower Girl
Alexa is an honorary auntie to Mackenleigh and can't wait to have her + her baby sister in the wedding. Their momma Regan is the first friend of Alexa to be a mom and this is a special honor to have both her baby girls as flower girls.
Marleigh Jane Vaught
Marleigh Jane Vaught - Baby Flower Girl
Alexa is an honorary auntie to Marleigh and can't wait to have her + her big sister in the wedding. Their momma Regan is the first friend of Alexa to be a mom and this is a special honor to have both her baby girls as flower girls.
Maddie McCracken
Maddie McCracken - Jr. Bridesmaid
Alexa has loved the McCracken family since she started attending church at PNWA. They have been a constant source of love and support to Alexa throughout life. Their littlest is the sweetest child named Maddie and Alexa loves her dearly! Every Sunday Maddie races to show "Lexie" her Sunday outfit. It is an honor to have her in the wedding.
Alexander Saenz-Howe
Alexander Saenz-Howe - Page Boy
Alexa is so happy to have her little cousin in the wedding. Alexander helps with offering at his church and plays baseball at school. He loves the lord and is a big help to others. He is such a good boy and will do an excellent job!
Harris Ward
Harris Ward - Honorary Page Boy
Alexa has looked forward to having her favorite little boy from Sewanee in her wedding since she met the Ward family... his momma Hilary Dow Ward was Alexa's piano teacher and advocate on campus. Alexa often babysat Harris while a student at the university of the south! His momma is expecting another baby bird the same week as the wedding and we are so excited fo her! Harris still stands as an honorary page boy and he will be an excellent big brother.